Most couples know what they mean to do. Life happens. Kindred is a weekly check-in that turns those conversations into commitments you actually come back to.
Four steps you do together. Then the week between.
One of you opens Kindred. The other gets a notification. You both hold a button at the same time — same room, same moment. The whole thing takes about fifteen to twenty minutes.
You each answer the same questions on your own screen — ratings and short reflections about your week, your connection, and what's ahead. Neither of you sees the other's answers until you've both finished.
Answers appear side by side, at the same moment. No editing after the fact. Where your ratings differ by a lot, the app shows it.
After the reveal, you decide together — what to do this week, what to keep doing, what to let go of. Tasks for one-off things. Habits for what you want to keep up. The conversation has somewhere to go, and Kindred brings it back next week.
A check-in is twenty minutes. The week is the rest. That's where Kindred actually lives — the commitments you've made, the things that come up, the record of how it's been going.
Why the check-in matters
Each check-in ends with concrete commitments: tasks for the week, habits to keep going. The next one comes back to them before setting new ones, so what you agreed on doesn't quietly slip.
Every check-in moves through four themes — wellness, connection, reflection, what's ahead. Some questions come back every week so you can see how things shift. Others rotate in over time. Six of the twenty-two, below.
How much did outside stress affect how you showed up as a partner?
What's weighing on you that your partner might not know about?
How much did you feel like a team?
What's one specific thing your partner did this week that you appreciated?
Is there anything that felt unresolved or needs attention between you?
What's one thing you need from your partner in the week ahead?
Twenty-two questions in total across the four themes. A typical check-in covers about thirteen — the rest rotate in over time.
Fifteen to twenty minutes, once a week, in the same room. There's a five-day cooldown after each check-in, so it never asks for more than that.
You answer on your own screen. Your answers are saved as you go, and only revealed once you've both finished. After that, neither of you can edit them.
No scoring. No advice. No notifications pestering you to come back. Kindred shows you what each of you said and lets you take it from there.
One subscription, both of you
A year, for both partners.
No per-person pricing. The partner who joins by invite code never sees a paywall.
Or $4.99/month if you'd rather go month to month.
Download on the App StoreBoth plans are billed through the App Store. You can cancel any time in your iPhone settings.
No free trial — but there's an interactive demo you can try before signing up.
From the journal
A few practical pieces — on the habit, the questions worth asking, and how Kindred compares to the other couples apps out there.
A practical guide to starting a weekly check-in that actually sticks — what to ask, how long it takes, and how to keep it short enough to survive past week three.
Read the guideAn honest comparison — what each app does well and where it falls short.
Honest, themed prompts you can pick from — connection, friction, intimacy, goals.
Cadence, pricing, and philosophy — a head-to-head for couples deciding between them.
A weekly rhythm for the conversations you keep meaning to have — with commitments that come back next week.
